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Setting Limits: How To Define House Rules
As children grow into adolescence, it is imperative to have a set of house rules in place. In order for the governing house rules to be effective, there are a few things to keep in mind when implementing them.
When setting house rules, it is best to keep it simple. Decide what is most important to ensure the safety, well-being and character development of your child. Then, set rules that support those values. Start with 1 or 2 basic rules and add more over time.
Whether it is a curfew or rules regarding social media usage, the rules need to be clearly communicated to your teenager. Sit them down and explain to them what is expected of them and resulting consequences if the rules are not followed.
The best way to ensure that the house rules are followed is to be consistent in administering consequences when they are broken. From removing privileges to additional chores around the house, consistent consequences for undesirable behavior will help them remember the rules.
House rules do not have to be heavy handed or unloving. In fact, it is quite the contrary. By keeping it simple and explaining clearly, the rules you set in place will help to grow, nurture and protect your child.